The viral “performative male” trend has finally arrived at Vanderbilt. Popular across social media platforms and college campuses, the trend highlights the stereotype of men who only feign interests, such as loving matcha and tote bags, for approval from women. Vanderbilt students brought the idea to life on Sept. 19 during Family Weekend with a performative male contest that attracted not only students but also their parents. Unlike most campus events, the competition was entirely student-led and unaffiliated with any organization. The spontaneity of the event had its own charm and a playful atmosphere.
Five members organized the event, including juniors Yash Patel and Erin Davis.
“I just made this to have some fun,” Patel said. “Just getting people together, having some fun!”
The event was advertised through posters all over campus, ranging from Stevenson Center to libraries, to even residence halls. Although the contest was scheduled to begin at 5 p.m., it started off disorganized. With Alumni Lawn already in use for Family Weekend, many students struggled to find the location, and some even assumed the event had been cancelled. After the crowd started to gather, there were around 15 participants within the event. The rewards for the top three included a Labubu, a Starbucks gift card and a book titled “We Should All Be Feminists,” which is a CORE 1010 reading material. Around 150 students and parents were present at the height of the event. During the event, the participants were given a list of questions along with time for a brief introduction. The questions ranged from playful to serious, testing how dedicated each participant was to their “performative male” persona. I was awed by the dedication of each member, with some bringing a record player along with Laufey’s vinyl.
Some of the students at the event asked me why I wasn’t competing in the contest, as well. Considering my attire, I guess I was already halfway to being a performative male, donning baggy pants and a crossbody bag. I loved each participant’s performance as well as the participation of the audience. Many parents seemed to be confused, but nevertheless, they couldn’t help but laugh along. I really think that more people would’ve shown up if the event had been better advertised. Yet, for a quick event that wasn’t supported by any school organization, attracting roughly 150 students was impressive. Event leaders narrowed the field to five finalists, and the audience ultimately chose junior Rainelli Koumangoye as the winner.
With the ultimate “performative male” crowned, the playful contest highlighted how Vanderbilt students uplift one another. Coming just after the first general chemistry exam, the lighthearted event boosted school spirit and offered a memorable break for both students and families. More than poking fun at a stereotype, the trend celebrated creativity and humor on campus.
